I wear it on a longer chain like the card suggested, right at the sternum. Sounds small but having something physical there every time I catch myself being hard on myself actually helps.

Keep it on my desk during calls I know are going to be difficult. Probably placebo but I noticed myself staying calmer and I'll take it.

Held this in my hand before asking for a raise I'd been putting off for months. Got the raise. Not saying it was the crystal, but I'm keeping it on my desk now.

Lit this while doing the money-journaling thing from the ritual tip and it's genuinely become a Sunday habit now. Scent is warm, not sickly-sweet like some vanilla candles.

Light it right at the front door for the first ten minutes after I get home, like the card says. Sounds oddly specific but it does make the transition from work-brain to home-brain feel real.

Bought it for myself, not for a partner, and it still works for that — the self-love framing on the page is what sold me. Wish the jar were slightly bigger for the price.